Click Open contract
From a buy or sell row, Open contract sends a request at the order owner price (the listed price of the order you open against). Messaging stays locked until the other side accepts (within 3 days).
- Buyer opens against a sell - you pay establishing $1.10 + price + 1.1% into escrow now; the seller must accept. If they do not answer in 3 days, the request cancels and their sell order is removed as unavailable (your escrow is refunded).
- Seller opens against a buy - you pay $0; the buyer already funded establishing with the buy listing. The buyer must accept. If they do not answer in 3 days, the request cancels and their buy order is removed as unavailable.
- Self-contract - open against your own buy or sell from order details. One chat per contract at that order's price with normal fees; messaging opens immediately. Buy chats are the Buyer Telegram thread; sell chats are the Seller Telegram thread. Under Telegram, You is your Team account and the arrow points at the trader contact for that thread - never your Team handle twice. The Messages list title and chat header show that trader's Telegram handle first, then via your Team handle for the contract - not your Up-YourLife profile. Deal title stays in Deal / as a secondary line. Compose in that chat sends to the linked trader on Telegram automatically - including when they have no Up-YourLife account. Your compose lines stay on the right with the Up-YourLife badge; trader Telegram replies stay on the left with the Telegram badge. Link / Unlink anytime - sync only while linked. Forward / Skip is only for the other bridged leg (buy ↔ sell), not for same-thread delivery. Link buy ↔ sell contracts so inbound trader Telegram lines appear live in the message list with the Telegram badge (not System - and without a From Seller Telegram: prefix). Web composer lines use the Up-YourLife logo badge. System lines use the settings badge. Forwarded copies on the other leg use the forward badge. After Forward, icon chips show whether Up-YourLife and Telegram each accepted the line - retry Telegram if needed. Forward / Skip sit under each Telegram bubble (pencil edits before forward). Bridged sell and buy chats group together in the chat list. Messages shows Chats on the left and Contract on the right - hide or expand each from the chat header. Contract groups Deal, Telegram, and Bridge (+ / -, one open). In Bridge, link sell → buy, then tap the arrow to open the linked leg (same arrow on the chat list). Escrow stays on each contract once.
- Decline as Not available now or Prefer not this person- same rules as auto-match (not used for self-deals).